Showing care through technology & telephone:

1. Even if you are stuck overseas and cannot be home or have no time to get to and be with your loved ones, you can arrange to connect through Skype, Whatsapp video or the simple, humble telephone. A few minutes of seeing (or hearing) you, your family or a group of people can make a difference in comforting them from their current problem;
2. Praying through these devices are great ways of letting them know you care;
3. Send photos that they can play and replay to “see” you.
   
   

Showing care through home visitation:

A little coordination needs to happen here, to ensure their physical advisories are considered (that is, everyone is healthy) and they are not overwhelmed or over tired. A good practice may just be to stand and remain outside their metal door.

1. Family, especially if there are young children, bring great cheer to the seniors
2. Church family and friends. Short 15-minute visits can make a seniors’ day.

• • Short because you want to not over tire the senior. (Do not get offended if the family reminds you that it’s time to leave);

• • Keep the numbers small, so as not to overwhelm the senior;
  • While visiting, observe social etiquette and social distancing rule;
  • As Asians, we do not go empty handed (good culture). But, do check with family an appropriate little gift.
    
    

Showing care through sending a card:

In a day where the cost of cards and postage are on the rise, few cards are received. Sending a larger print, home-made cards can help brighten the day. Including a photo will help with identification.

Showing care through a care package:

1. An occasional surprise care package of “little things” will help bring some cheer. The package could include fun and practical items. It would be good to include a something for the helper;
2. A surprise delivery of an appropriate meal.
   
   

“Run by” the above with the family.

Showing care through outing:

While it is not a good idea to take your seniors to crowded places, there are a couple of suggestions to remain “safe” and yet get them out for a little while. It will help prevent the feeling of isolation:

1. Where possible, an occasional car ride to different parts of town; if you are concerned about transmission, leave the windows down
2. Visit parks in the early morning or early evening. Parks are open places, airy and sunny. A short 30-minute visit, once a week, to such places will help the seniors feel less couped up.